Youth Program · aligned to Methodist / Wesleyan
Return to Me: What Ash Wednesday and Lent Are About
Lent is simply an invitation to turn our whole hearts back to a God who already loves us and knows exactly who we are — not a performance to earn His love, but a season to make room for it.
How this lesson was made
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Lesson plan
Greet everyone warmly as they arrive. Open with a quick game: "Do-Over." Ask each student to share one small, low-stakes thing they wish they could get a do-over on this week (a missed free throw, a typo in a text, saying the wrong name, burning the popcorn). Keep it light and fast — go around the circle. Then say: "We all love a fresh start. There's a whole season on the church calendar that is basically God offering us a fresh start. Tonight we're going to figure out what Ash Wednesday and Lent are actually about — and why it's good news." Note for the leader: some churches observe Lent and some don't; present it tonight as something worth understanding, not something anyone has to do.
Explain simply: Lent is the roughly 6-week season leading up to Easter. It starts on Ash Wednesday, when some Christians get a small cross of ashes on their forehead as a reminder that life is short and we need God. Many people 'give something up' or take something on during Lent to make more room for God. It's a tradition — a helpful one for many believers — but it's not a rule that saves you. As Wesleyans, we lean on Scripture first, and tradition and experience help us live it out. Read Joel 2:12-13 (BSB). Point out three things: (1) 'Even now' — it's never too late to turn back. (2) 'Return to Me with all your heart' — God wants YOU, not just outward actions. (3) 'Rend your hearts and not your garments' — in Joel's day people tore their clothes to show grief; God says don't just do the outward show, let your actual heart change. God isn't impressed by performance; He's after honesty. Then read Psalm 103:13-14 (BSB). This is the 'why it's good news' part: God is like a compassionate father, and 'He knows our frame; He is mindful that we are dust.' God already knows we're fragile, that we mess up, that we're limited. Turning back to Him isn't walking toward someone who's shocked and disappointed — it's walking toward someone who already knows everything and loves us anyway. That's prevenient grace: God's love reaching for us before we even take a step. Land the plane: Lent, at its best, is a season to say yes to a God who is already saying 'return to Me.' Not guilt. Invitation.
Break into smaller clusters of 3-5 (keep groups mixed by age/grade). Hand each group the discussion questions and have one student read them aloud. Encourage real answers, not 'Sunday school' answers. Circulate and listen. Bring everyone back together for the last 2 minutes and ask one person per group to share one thing their group talked about.
Give each student an index card and a pen. Explain that one historic way people have observed Lent is by 'giving something up' or 'taking something on' to make more room for God. Invite them (optionally) to pick ONE idea for the next few weeks and write it on their card: - A non-food fast: taking a break from a game, social media app, streaming, or complaining — and using that time/space to pray or notice God. - A take-on: a daily 2-minute prayer, texting one encouragement a day, reading a psalm, helping at home without being asked. Important: For this age group we are NOT doing a food-fasting challenge. If an older teen is curious about fasting from food, the clear rule is: talk to a parent and a doctor first, and anyone with diabetes, an eating disorder, who is pregnant, or who has any medical condition should not fast from food. Make room for God does not mean skipping meals. After writing, have students fold the card and keep it in a pocket, phone case, or Bible as a reminder. Those comfortable can share their choice with their small group so the group can cheer them on. Emphasize: this is optional, between them and God, and not a competition.
Gather the full group. Recap the big idea in one sentence: 'God is already saying return to Me — and He knows exactly who we are and loves us anyway.' Read Psalm 103:13-14 (BSB) one more time slowly. Lead a short, unhurried prayer: thank God that He knows our frame, that it's never too late, and ask Him to help each student turn toward Him this season. Offer a moment of silence for anyone who wants to pray their own honest 'return to Me' prayer. Let students know you and other leaders are around to talk or pray with anyone afterward.
Discussion questions
- warmupWhen you hear the word 'repent' or 'turning back to God,' what feeling pops up first — guilt, relief, confusion, or something else? Why?
- digJoel 2:13 says to 'rend your hearts and not your garments.' Why might someone do the outward religious thing without their heart being in it? (No names, just the idea.) Why do you think God cares more about the heart?
- digPsalm 103:14 says God 'knows our frame' and remembers we are dust. How does it change things to know that God already knows your weaknesses before you turn to Him?
- applyIf you tried a non-food fast or a 'take-on' for the next few weeks, what is one specific thing that would actually make more room for God in your real life?
- applyWhat's one small way you could 'return to God with all your heart' this week — even if no one else notices?
Scripture
Joel 2:12-13 (BSB) — “Yet even now,” declares the LORD, “return to Me with all your heart, with fasting, weeping, and mourning.” So rend your hearts and not your garments, and return to the LORD your God. For He is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger, abounding in loving devotion. And He relents from sending disaster.
Psalm 103:13-14 (BSB) — As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear Him. For He knows our frame; He is mindful that we are dust.
Matthew 6:6 (BSB) — But when you pray, go into your inner room, shut your door, and pray to your Father, who is unseen. And your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.
Leader notes
Prep checklist
- Read Joel 2:12-13 and Psalm 103:13-14 (BSB) ahead of time and pray through the big idea so you can say it in your own words.
- Decide before the session how to explain Lent given your church's practice — present it as a helpful tradition to understand, never as a requirement; keep it optional.
- Running short on time? Trim the icebreaker to one quick lap and tighten the discussion to just the two 'dig' questions. Keep the full activity (especially the fasting safety guidance) and the closing prayer and silence intact.
- Be ready to redirect any food-fasting enthusiasm: for this age group, point to non-food fasts only, and state clearly that anyone with diabetes, an eating disorder, who is pregnant, or who has a medical condition should not fast from food — and that any fasting from food needs a parent and doctor's okay first.
- If a student discloses something heavy during discussion or afterward (self-harm, thoughts of suicide, abuse at home), stay calm, take it seriously, and follow your church's safeguarding/child-protection policy and loop in a parent/guardian as appropriate. You can point a teen or yourself to the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (call or text 988, available 24/7); for immediate danger call 911. Prayer is good and real, but it is never a substitute for professional or emergency help.
- Have a couple of adult leaders available to pray one-on-one after the session.
Materials
- Index cards (one per student) and pens
- A Bible or printed copies of Joel 2:12-13 and Psalm 103:13-14 (BSB)
- Printed copies of the discussion questions for each small group
- Optional: a whiteboard or poster to write the big idea where everyone can see it
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